It was with great sadness that The Veterans Squash Club of
Great Britain learnt that their Vice President, the
amazing Lance Kinder, died suddenly on 14th December 2023.
Lance had always been one of the greatest supporters of
the Club since he joined 40 years ago in 1983. His squash
record is immense, playing singles in every age group from
Over 45 to Over 80, and the same for doubles with his
longtime partner, John Woodliffe. Lance will be sorely
missed at all the Club events, even since retiring from
actually playing squash only a year ago, he and Jacqui
still supported the GB Vets – watching squash matches at
various clubs and tournaments, the GB Vets Finals at
Colet’s, in November the Festival of Squash at RAC
Woodcote Park, and the night before at the 60th
Celebration dinner and dance at Colet’s. No match or
tournament will be the same without his encouragement, his
wonderful smile and his great interest in the sport and
the players. He was everyone’s favourite – young, old,
women, and men – he will be sorely missed by his family,
his friends, and the squash fraternity.
Lance was an absolutely lovely man and superb squash
player, competitive and fair, a great exponent of the Vets
Club. He was always the perfect gentleman, a most
wonderful family man, very genuine, loved by all, and
fantastic company. One of the greats.
The following was written very recently by Aubrey Waddy
for the next Newsletter……
I had a lovely chat with Lance Kinder about his squash
life not long after the GB Vets party at Colets in
November. This was the first part of the process of posing
five questions to him for an article for the newsletter. I
wish for this absolutely iconic member of the club we’d
started the process sooner. Lance passed away before I had
a chance to send him the actual questions. It’s such a
regret.
Lance’s diminutive stature and soft voice give little hint
of his prowess as a squash player. Actually, ‘prowess’
isn’t a word you would necessarily associate with Lance,
but a look at his squash record makes you realise how
appropriate the word really is. The details of his career
are astonishing, and are best summarised, rather than
spread out over several pages. For a list of his many
trophies, see his entry in Wikipedia.
Among Lance’s more than thirty significant singles titles,
which include his early county championships in Avon, his
well over twenty doubles titles, and 72 England Masters
caps, lies the jewel in his squash crown, a World Masters
title, in Charlottesville VA in 2018. I saw Lance’s
victory in Charlottesville. In the final he beat the
outstanding American Ed Burlingame: 5-11, 11-7, 11-6,
11-2. You don’t need to be an acute observer of squash to
work out that Lance was too fit and too strong. He claimed
he owed his squash longevity to a lifetime regime of
training and playing at least three times a week,
including running and court sprints, and working with
weights. As he said, “You get back what you put in.” He
certainly did in Charlottesville.
To appreciate how much Lance put physically into his game,
you have to look at what he achieved rather than at his
flyweight figure (in the RAF he was indeed a boxing
champion at flyweight, eight stone). And you wouldn’t
necessarily guess, say talking with Lance in a squash
gallery, how strongly he possessed that other essential
component of winning, a fiercely competitive nature. It
was certainly there. He actually said when I asked him
about the spirit of the game, “It hurts if I lose.”
Lance’s other remark about his squash, which is so
appropriate to our club, and completely unsurprising to
those of us who knew him, was, “The advice I’d give to
anyone playing squash, is to enjoy it.”
You can find Lance in one of the BBC’s sports promotion
videos, ‘Get Inspired: 80 years old and still playing
squash.’ He was nearer 40 than 30 when he took the game
up. As well as the flyweight boxing, he had played
cricket, as a batsman and leg spinner, and football at
school and in the RAF. But he “eased off sport” after
meeting and marrying his long-time partner and dedicated
supporter, and lovely wife, Jacqui. Easing off. I should
have asked him what he would have done if he’d taken
squash seriously! He started playing simply for the
exercise, afraid of putting on weight as his career in the
clothing industry advanced and cricket was occupying too
much time. He ended up as Managing Director of his
clothing company. Eventually though he joined a squash
friend in the motor business to avoid the extensive
travelling of his job. This gave him more time for his
sons Neil and Darren as they grew up.
Not long after he started his squash career Lance became
Avon champion, and it was in a match against
Gloucestershire that he met his long-time friend and
doubles partner, and fellow GB Vets member, John
Woodliffe. One of the questions I wish I’d put to Lance
was to ask about the secret of his success with John.
Their names in tandem adorn the bases of all the GB Vets
doubles trophies, and they played each other many times in
the singles championships. On some finals weekends the
pair of them seemed to be continuously on court, in the
relevant singles and often in more than one of the doubles
age groups.
Lance won the o-55 British Open title in 1992. This stat
might be lost in the middle of his many tournament
victories, but it stands out because remarkably, his first
round victim was none other than the great Hashim Khan.
Hashim was apparently a perfect gentleman during the match
(that would have made a total of two), and on leaving the
court he announced to the gallery, “This man very good
player. Best player.” What an accolade! Lance went on to
beat John Cox in the final. The 1999 World Masters
Championships in Sheffield provided him with another
cosmic scalp. It was the only time doubles as well as
singles had been included in the World Masters. Lance duly
entered the o-55s with John Woodliffe, and on the way to
winning, they beat the late Malcolm Willstrop, no mean
opponent, and the absolutely stellar Jonah Barrington. To
have beaten Hashim Khan and Jonah Barrington in a single
career, bless me!
So, various questions remain sadly unasked and unanswered,
but we can still – happily - leave the last word to Lance,
modest as ever: “If I look back, I’ve had a good run.”
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